“Finally walking away from my twenty three year marriage and starting again highlighted just how little self worth I was left with – if I’d ever had any at all.
Meeting a man in lockdown seemed impossible until I chose to do something I would never normally have done.
Using the Law Of Attraction I knew I had to step out of my comfort zone and signing up to a dating website for me was that place of deep discomfort. Going on the dating website was the easy bit yet my success lies in the work I put in that entire year before
Starting a new relationship meant I had to go back to parts of my childhood I thought were already healed that took me to the edge of somewhere I didn’t think I’d ever end up again. Fast forward six months and I am happier, freer and more me than I’ve ever been in my adult life.
If the relationship I’ve begun is ‘it’ then that’s amazing and if it’s not I’m still good. Either way I’ve regained a strength, belief and trust in my own abilities to run my life and love myself but also to identify the red flags and walk away if I need to.
The new man is a huge source of love fun and enjoyment and maybe there’s a future for us together – either way I’ll be fine – because what I’ve gained through walking through the fire and doing the shadow work, is priceless.”